When it comes to moving house, the concept of keeping the kids happy might strike fear in the heart of parents everywhere. How will you manage them while getting all the boxes out and loaded up in the van? What will they think to their new home and area? Are you prepared for the upset a house move will cause them, from the day you unload the van to their first night sleeping in a new room? Probably not, so here’s a quick guide on how to have a stress free house move with the kids:
Involve them from the start
As soon as you know you definitely want to move out, talk to the kids about the concept of leaving their home. Explain to them that they will be living somewhere even better (and if needs be you could tell them that their room will be bigger or that they won’t be sharing with their sibling anymore if you are going for more rooms). Answer any questions or concerns they have honestly. If you are moving far away they need to know this because it will impact where they go to school and subsequently their friendships.
Do your research before the move
It’s a good idea to check out the area you are moving to beforehand with the kids in mind. Is it within walking distance to their school? Do your neighbours have children around the same age? Is there space to play outside where you can keep an eye on them? Perhaps you could take them with you on a second viewing to gauge their reaction to your choices.
Get things over and done with quickly
From the moment your kids know about the move it’s imperative that you get things moving quickly. Sign up with an estate agent and have your home listed on a property site such as Rightmove or Zoopla or speak to a property buying company such as We Buy Any Home, who will purchase your house outright in cash to ensure a quick sale.
Let them pack some of their own things
Involving them in the packing of items in the home can help them come to terms with the change. They could take ownership of their soft toy collection or you could assign them the job of clearing out their toy box of items they don’t play with anymore to create more space.
Let them stay with a relative on moving day
Keep the kids out of the way during the main part of the moving day to reduce stress on both your parts. Allowing them to enjoy their day, away from the stress of leaving their family home, will reduce the risk of tears. Be sure to attempt to unpack their rooms first so they have a space to come home to when you pick them up. You can decorate it later – just ensure the bed is ready and some of their favourite toys are out.
Enlist their help in decorating
Before you move, ask your kids what they would like their ideal bedroom to be decorated like and take them to the local DIY store to choose some paints or wallpaper. If they are excited about a new bedroom it might help to convince them the move is a good idea and reduce any future stress.
When it comes to moving home, save yourself any stress and hassle by taking on these tips and ensure your move goes as smoothly as possible.
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