After a breakup your confidence can often plummet to all time lows. Those jeans that you thought you look good in suddenly don't make you feel good at all. You're probably feeling very unlovable so if a new person comes along and shows signs of finding you attractive it can give you an enormous confidence boost and lessen the heartache of past rejection. Friends may also be encouraging you to get back out there as there are plenty more fish in the sea. But jumping in too soon without grieving ... VIEW POST